The first time I watched this video, I
laughed and admired the girl's tattoos. The second time through I thought about the significance cell phones have in telling personal narratives and in
celebrations. People love stories, and the story we like best is our own.
We have always used whatever is available to us to record the
preciousness of life. What do clay tablets and cave drawing show us if
not this? And cell phones with the
Internet and camera, allow sharing in an instant. Impulsively, we type
and click. The same is true of celebrations. Before, we might have
clapped at the end of our child's performance. Now we draw out our newly
evolved appendage, and we click. Even food, a party's right-hand man,
shares a place of necessity with the cell phone. If an event is worthy of
honor, we bring cake (and we take pictures of it). If we want to show our
friends we value our lunch date, we post it to facebook.
Is it bad that cell phones have taken the
place of a clap or a letter? As the video painfully showed us, cell
phones make us look silly, but honestly, who's looking up to see it? I
have a track phone that mostly stays in my desk, but I do love the Internet. I
use it to tell my sister how closely she is bound to me, even though I haven't
seen her since Christmas. I like that sixty-six people wished me happy birthday
on facebook, and I've used my camera and then a click on-line to tell my story.
There is nothing wrong with it; it's just not enough. I don’t
want the instant click to be the only way I record and celebrate. I want
to remember my life through words I struggle to arrange, and not just the
ones I hurried onto a screen. I want the girth of reflection writing poetry
gives me. Try it. It's doesn't need to be anything grand; just tell
your story.
Sitting in Church- September 1, 2013
I rub arms
against soft, young skin.
My girls
twisting
braiding
the ribbons
green, black, white, red
from the prayer book.
Their hands move to settle their bodies.
The organ plays.
Voices
high and bold
rise up.
They quiver with age.
The church is babies and white-hairs.
The black hair of my children
will someday turn white,
but for now
I turn to the white-hairs.
Oh, the glory of
those white hairs.
They kneel,
holding grandchildren-
holding us all-
they lead us on.
-two of my dark-haired children
-after Sunday service at Grace Church
-after Sunday service at Grace Church
(not in September)
My church has come to mean so much to me. I wanted to remember why.
My church has come to mean so much to me. I wanted to remember why.
Lisa, this is beyond words beautiful. Basic video just can't capture emotion the way words can. Thank you.
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